Three distinguished members of the Second Continental Congress: John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, and Edward Rutledge met with British Admiral Lord Richard Howe at the home of a loyalist on Staten Island in New York. While Howe had pleaded with King George III to be given full authority to end the conflict peaceably, he was only given limited jurisdiction to grant pardons. That did not sit well with the Americans. As far as they were concerned, they’d done nothing wrong that would warrant a pardon from the Crown. They insisted that their newly-minted independence be recognized by Britain. Howe politely explained that he had no such powers—in fact he refused to address them as anything but British subjects. Adams retorted, "Your lordship may consider me in what light you please, except that of a British subject.” Not surprisingly, the meeting ended after just three hours.
Had things gone differently, there were a number of possible ‘off-ramps’ to end the war—e.g., fixed payments to the Crown instead of usurious taxes and ‘dominion’ status to the colonies (similar to the relationship between Britain and Canada). How different our mutual histories might have been if agreement had been reached on that September 11th on Staten Island.